21 things i want in a lover

1.  he must be the same height or taller than me. taller than 177 cm that is…
2.  has blue or green eyes.
3.  preferably of mediterranean descent and from a large family so that he understands my family dynamics and he is also as close to his family as i am. he must also be fluent in his mother tongue (preferably a romantic language).
4.  a happy and positive person.
5.  driven and passionate.
6.  has healthy teeth, a great smile and is a great kisser.
7.  is sexually compatible with me. (not that i base relationships on sex or anything, it’s just that it helps)
8.  is kind, compassionate and tolerant.
9.  is affectionate.
10. is intelligent, witty and well read.
11. is a good cook.
12. is self-supporting.
13. is committed and serious in our relationship.
14. is light-hearted and funny.
15. wants to settle down (marry) with me and have children.
16. enjoys physical activities and likes spending time outdoors, he is a man’s man…
17. is attractive in my opinion (looking like jesse bradford is essential here) and has a great ass! (i need something superficial!)
18. is supportive and understanding of my dreams as i will be of his. (implying he has dreams and goals see point 5.)
19. is cultured and enjoys the fine arts, although he does not need to be fanatical about it after all he is a man’s man.
20. enjoys reading and has read the harry potter books.
21. must love me as much as i love him.

(‘21 things i want in a lover’ is sung by alanis morissette and is taken from the album ‘under rug swept’)

~ by freddy on 25 June, 2009.